Ugh. Seriously? Knock that shit off.\n\n[[back|intro]]
I'm an introvert too. Which is not the same thing as being shy, but if you already know that you can skip the rest of this page.\n\nIntroversion, shyness, and not liking people are all different things. Being an introvert just means that being around people tires me out. To recharge, I need time alone. I listen more than I talk, and I need time to think before I say anything. \n\nExtraverts, on the other hand, are energized by being around people. In my experience they think out loud, which means they talk more and faster and I have trouble getting a word in edgewise. I strongly prefer introverts, but if you're a particularly patient and thoughtful extravert, I'll give you a chance.\n\n[[back|yourself]]
For starters, you need to be single or with a partner who is enthusiastic about you finding a dom. \n\nIdeally, you'll be somewhere within ten years of my age (I'm 30), but if we get along well and you're not old enough to be my father I'll at least consider making an exception. Er, on the high end. There is no statutory rape on the menu, guys.\n\nAlso, you need to be a feminist. You don't have to use that word for it, but if you don't understand that male privilege is a thing we're not going to get along.\n\nIt would also be a plus if you were open to spending time with me and my boyfriend. If the two of you can't stand each other, that's going to complicate my life in ways I'm just not interested in.\n\nSo if I haven't managed to scare you off yet, send me an <html><a href="mailto:stabbity@notjustbitchy.com">email</a></html>.\n\n\n
Wow. Which one of us is supposed to be submitting, again?\n\n[[back|intro]]
Why does my potential submissive's gender matter when I'm not going to be having sex with him? \n\nThat's a good question, and I'm not sure just how well I can explain it. I'm a lot more comfortable with the idea of ordering a man around than I am giving orders to a woman. Plus, beating on someone bigger than I am (and most men are, although I am fairly tall for a woman) just does it for me. And to be clear, looking for a male sub means that if you identify as male and submit at least some of the time (switches are welcome too, just don't expect me to switch with you), you could be who I'm looking for.\n\nAnd, no sex doesn't mean no sexual situations whatsoever. Tease and denial, for example, is still on. Maybe CBT if you're into that.\n\n[[back|looking]]
<<set $read_about_me = true>>[[My blog|http://www.notjustbitchy.com/]] is a good way to learn about me. If nothing else, you should check out a few of my most popular posts: \n\n[['Forced' Feminization|http://www.notjustbitchy.com/forced-feminization/]]\n[[Fuzzy Slippers|http://www.notjustbitchy.com/fuzzy-slippers/]]\n[['Domme'|http://www.notjustbitchy.com/domme/]]\n\nIf you totally disagree with any of those, well, now you know I'm not the dom for you.\n\nOf course, my blog doesn't tell the whole story. In person, I'm much quieter than my blog makes me sound - I'm actually really [[reserved]] until I get to know people. \n\nI'm a huge [[nerd]], kind of a homebody, and I have this sick fondness for terrible action movies. Oh, and I swear like a sailor when I'm cranky about something. Ladylike I am not.\n\n<<if $read_looking>>\n[[What sort of person should contact you?|target]]\n<<else>>[[Can you tell me more about what you're looking for?|looking]]<<endif>>\n\n
<<set $read_looking = true>>I'm looking for a submissive of my very own. That is, I want someone who will come over when I tell [[him]] to and let me beat on him, and I want to explore d/s with him.\n\nInflicting pain isn't the only thing I'm interested in, but I am a [[sadist]] and it has been a while :)\n\nAs for exploring d/s, I've never really gotten a chance to do that. I would need an ongoing friendship and a lot of trust in my submissive to feel comfortable [[ordering]] them around, but it's something I'd really like to try. \n\nIt would be nice to find someone who's interested in long, nerdy discussions about kink, too.\n\n<<if $read_about_me>>\n[[What sort of person should contact you?|target]]\n<<else>>[[Can you tell me more about yourself?|yourself]]<<endif>>
<<silently>>\n<<set $read_about_me = false>>\n<<set $read_looking = false>>\n<<endsilently>>\n31 year old attached woman seeks chewtoy for fun and games.\n\n[[Like to know more?|intro]]\n\n
I'm really, really not the barking orders type, and I'm not going to pretend to be anything I'm not. I'm really interested in using someone however I like, though. Sometimes that will involve telling them to rub my feet while I read, and sometimes it will involve grabbing them by the collar and dragging them off for a beating.\n\n[[back|looking]]
Nice to meet you. Since this is a game it's going to be a little one-sided. Why don't you ask me some questions?\n\n[[Can you tell me more about yourself?|yourself]]\n[[Or more about what you're looking for?|looking]]
I'm not exactly the scariest sadist out there, but there's something uniquely satisfying for me about inflicting pain.\n\n[[back|looking]]
Interactive Personal Ad
[[Stabbity|http://www.notjustbitchy.com/]]
Hi, I'm Stabbity. I like my [[husband]], reading, computer games, and chaining people up and hurting them.\n\n[[Greetings, Goddess. This one is not worthy to address you.|goddess]]\n[[Hi Stabbity, I'm ...|hi]]\n[[So, do you like wearing leather? I love it when women wear leather.|leather]]
Come on, I made a choose your own adventure personal ad. You can't be surprised I'm kind of a dork :)\n\nTo be more specific, I'm a programmer, a gamer, I read a lot of fantasy and some science fiction, and like my blog shows I really enjoy overthinking kink. If you're any sort of nerd, we'll probably get along.\n\n[[back|yourself]]
Why would I post a personal ad if I already have a husband?\n\nBecause the husband, as adorable as he is, is not precisely submissive (although he's fucking amazing at anticipatory service) and not interested in getting beaten on.\n\n[[back|intro]]